24/12 – 30/12
Back on Track
Excellent, things are working out just fine again! Julie and I talked a lot to evaluate things and I realized that most of our recent problems are caused by my lack of patience!! – I do tend to get carried away and want everything in a rush whereas julie prefers a more slow but sure approach. I must have been on a real downer when I made my last entry and if your reading this babe, then im sorry!!
When I look back on our sex life, I realize that I have always been in control/charge and julie has loved being almost submissive in her approach – she has a huge sexual appetite – even bigger than mine! And I have always used my imagination and creativity to make sure she is satisfied. She has told me that she is totally up for holding the key to my cock and have me focus even more attention on her but that she does need time and prefers to take things slowly. I think that I was rushing to much in terms of wanting to make huge changes almost from day one but that’s simply unrealistic. So for the time being weve agreed that I will lock myself up and look after the keys, this means that I can let myself out for showers, sleep, masturbation(if I really cant wait!) and I have told julie that the pressure is completely off her and she can simply take possession of the keys when she feel like it!! I think this is a better place to start and she certainly feels more comfortable about things which is crucial to making it all work. Neither of us have visions of me becoming a “subby puppy” or her becoming some sort of strict dominatrix (though these elements may come into play for fantasy sex from time to time) we see it more as an extra spice, and an aphrodisiac – and boy does it work!! The feeling I get when pleasuring her all locked away and not knowing if I will be let out is just indescribable it makes me incredibly horny and by cutting out all my masturbation she always gets a full load when she does let me out!!
We are now in a much happier place and looking forward to a whole heap of fun next year!! Were going round for drinks with friends tonight and julie is looking forward to it knowing I will be locked away until later, I think she gets a kick knowing our little secret when were out and in company!! I just hope she doesn’t have too much to drink and decide to show me off!!
Was just about to upload this to my blog when I saw an entry in my comments section:
When I read the entry by greengrass, I initially felt touched that someone could be bothered to read all my stuff and then share it with his keyholder and must admit that he/they got it right about the patience part, however, it ultimately left me feeling pissed off!! Comments are one thing but where does it see “please give the author some advice”?. Chastity means different things to different people and from what ive read, no 2 adventures are the same. I have a very strong opinion when it comes to offering advice, firstly advice should only ever be offered when it is sought!! And secondly when advising about something as serious as chastity the advisor should have an indepth knowledge of the person they are offering advice to or they will get it worng!!
If I ever feel that I want some advice about how to run my life then I will talk to someone that I have built up a trust with and someone that knows me very well!! This has not happened so far in my life and don’t see that it will be happening anytime soon!! We are going on our own adventure and need no direction from others, we will make our mistakes and learn from them – it’s a lot more fun that way!!!
Right im off to do some ironing and house work whilst julie is at work, I want to make sure I get to spend some time with her pussy later!!
greengrass
Hi smallboy,
great to read that you are happier about the situation between you and Julie.
I am sorry that my previous comments were not well recieved. A case of me mis-reading the situation. If you care to re-read your post titled "where has it all gone wrong?" (note the question mark), but put yourself in my position. You will read a diary from a guy who is very cut up about his situation. Take particular attention to the words you used in the last paragraph. Even in some small way, if I am able to offer assistance to someone that troubled, I will.
You place your thoughts in the public domain, and offer the ability for readers to pass comments. You may not like what I wrote, but what was written was done so with care and consideration and made with the best of intentions. I am sorry that my comments were not helpful for you, expecially since it appears they were read after you had sorted things out.
No hard feelings, and please let me offer you the very best for the new year, in what appears to be becoming a most exciting relationship for you and Julie.